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KielyM · #11 (**permalink**) 01-10-2009, 07:11 AM

Not talking about your relationship. If you were in a chat room talking about your desires sexually or flirting with other women then that is cheating. But not getting advice.

Katie · #12 (**permalink**) 01-10-2009, 08:39 AM

You have NO business discussing that with anyone but your wife or maybe a counselor. And the fact that you're posting your IM address all over the place and still asking for people to "discuss" with you is inappropriate at best.

Alexis · #13 (**permalink**) 01-10-2009, 10:06 AM

your wife is the only one who knows what she likes getting intimate with others on your relationship can hurt her feelings and the repercussion for you will be hurtful do the right thing and remain in the counsel of your spouse and keep your sexual intimacy between yous.

Summer · #14 (**permalink**) 01-10-2009, 11:34 AM

It's not really cheating, because it isn't physical, but that doesn't mean it's not weird as hell. I would be terribly heart broken and pissed if I found out my fiance was asking other women about sex. It's freaky and I would think of my man as a completely different guy! EWE

Hmmmm · #15 (**permalink**) 01-10-2009, 01:02 PM

Sometimes you just need to see how other people look at situations that bother you. It can be difficult to see clearly when you are in it. It's like talking to your friends, except that they will never tell you what they think you want to hear. Nothing to do with cheating

weisenheimer · #16 (**permalink**) 01-10-2009, 02:29 PM

It's not cheating, but as I mention earlier...you need to talk with your wife about these things.

Spindrift0293 · #17 (**permalink**) 01-10-2009, 03:57 PM

Discussing these things is fine, but a one on one with another woman is not. That is the difference.

shady · #18 (**permalink**) 01-10-2009, 05:25 PM

Nope not cheating.

pileated · #19 (**permalink**) 01-10-2009, 06:52 PM

If it develops into a situation where you and a woman continue chatting and an emotional bond develops, it can mean trouble. Even if you never actually meet, a spouse can end up feeling betrayed.

BarbaricSwan · #20 (**permalink**) 01-10-2009, 08:20 PM

cybering is always cheating, and there is no excuse for it. if my partner had cybered with just one person while we were together, we would no longer be a couple.

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